There must be something you can do, right? You know thinking about it every moment of the day isnt productive, but keeps them in your head. Whatever happened to end the relationship you can get your ex lover back fast if take this first moment, to take a deep breath and think, then keep reading.
The first change you need to make is within yourself. You need to discover your self worth again. The bitter truth of the situation is now that you are apart you have plenty of time to look inside you. Improve yourself. The break up was not an accidental, though it may have been sudden, so some sort of existing problem was there. You want to reflect your rediscovery of self worth back into the world with new clothes, staying healthy and working out, and be rediscovering old hobbies or finding new ones. Your ex lover will see this, or get word of it through mutual friends, and become aware of this change.
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The next thing you need to do is go out with some friends and have some drinks, go on dates again and meet new people, and generally just be social again. Be social like you used to be, but since youve rediscovered yourself it will give an all new impression on people, especially your ex. You are also not hiding out at your house and disconnecting from the world and of the two this is the healthier option. Dont let your social life suffer because of the break up. Its good for you and you ex will see you are displaying the confidence and assurance that they were attracted to.
Continuing along this idea is that you need to be outside, social, and seen in places as happy, enjoying life, and excited about life again. If you go to social events, perhaps weddings or parties, then its ok to drink, but dont drink so much you are drunk. You may still be holding those feelings of your ex lover inside and this is not a situation in which you want them all to come out because your filer is gone from alcohol. Dont get out of control, but have fun, and be social.
To get back your ex lover fast you need to avoid calling them constantly no matter how much you feel the need to. This is a counter intuitive thing but it must be done. You are working several lines at once right now and this is one of them. Your ex lover needs to be see, or be aware, of how happy you are and that your life didnt stop because theyre no longer in it. The longer you are away the more they can miss you. There is no opportunity for them to miss you if you call them all the time, text message them hundreds of times a day, or leave them Facebook messages or emails. Limit the contact so that they have the chance to see how their life is without you in it. They are watching from the sidelines as you are out having fun, being with friends, making new friends and meeting new people, and looking better than you ever have. You can get them to pursue you this way.
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These strategies work because they are all set up with an end goal in mind that as much as you miss and want your ex lover back youre not going to be the one doing the chasing. Youre going to use their human nature against them. Curiosity, wondering, questioning, how can this be? You give them the opposite impression theyre expecting and keep the contact limited so they have to find other ways to get answers. Their imagination will run wild thinking of what theyre hearing about and what might also be happening.
Take note and think about this game plan well. Getting your ex lover back fast is not impossible to do and many people before you have thought the same, but got their ex back. There is no reason why you cant do it too.
A break up is a devastating and heart wrenching experience. If you are going through a break up realize that you are not alone and that there is still hope. Youre probably unable to take your mind of off your ex and are doing everything you possibly can to try and save your relationship from permanent dissolution. The thing is your relationship can probably be saved no matter how bad it looks right now and now matter what the reasons are for the break up. Keep a positive attitude and keep trying and youll probably find that your ex still feels the same way about you.
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