My Ex Has a New Girlfriend What Should I Do

Hearing that your ex is now dating someone else can be pretty tough.  The feelings of rejection are bad enough, but you might also be feeling hopelessness and despair that you can never get your ex back again.  Maybe you were working your way back into his life again... or maybe you were just hoping hed come to his senses and reverse your break up.  Either way, when your ex has a new girlfriend it always stings.

The first thing you need to realize after your ex begins dating again is that its probably not forever.  If your exboyfriend is on the rebound, odds are good hell be single again in no time.  Not only do most rebound relationships fail within the first two months, but they often end up hurting pretty bad.  Your ex is going to pour a lot of effort into his new romance very quickly, to try and make up for the feelings he still has for you.

Does Your Ex Boyfriend Still Have Feelings For You?

Before you go shouting from the rooftops "my ex has a new girlfriend!", consider how he hooked up with this new love interest.  If it was fairly quick, and happened within a stones throw of your own breakup, chances are that hes on the rebound.  Your boyfriend pushed aside his feelings for you and moved on... but he didnt really move on, because he never had the chance to fully get over you.  This is actually good, because later on when his new girlfriend is history?  Those feelings will come flooding out all at once.

How To Get Your Boyfriend Back From Another Girl

There are two ways of getting your ex back when hes dating someone else.  The first is to wait out the initial, honeymoon stages of his rebound relationship - the time period where his ex can do no wrong.  Theres no use talking to your boyfriend or trying to dissuade him from going out with her... nothing you do is going to work.  Instead, lay low and take the high ground.  By not reducing yourself to the level of confrontation and jealousy, your ex will still have respect for you later on when you try to get him back.  Eventually his rebound will fail, and as someone safe and familiar, youll be in perfect position to "be there for him".

The second method for getting your ex back when hes dating a new girlfriend is a little trickier, and requires some more time.  You can use it when your exs new romance hasnt shown signs of trouble.  It also involves reconnecting with your boyfriend, but in a secret, trusting way.

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Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back When Hes Dating Someone Else.

Winning your man back while hes still involved in a relationship requires you to remain cool and keep his interests protected, at least until you can get back in his head again.  Jealousy and bitterness are going to drive your exboyfriend away very quickly, so be sure to tuck those emotions away.

My Ex Has a New Girlfriend - Should I Still Talk To Him?

Talking to your ex while hes dating someone else is dangerous.  Although some measure of contact is needed in order to get back together, you should wait until his new romance show signs of cracking.  There are various ways of knowing this, but youll also have to figure it out in a subtle way.  You cant outright ask your ex about his new relationship because hell know you have ulterior motives.