No saying describes relationships better than, "you only miss the water once the well runs dry," which equates to you never being able to appreciate what you have until it is gone. Women especially have the psyche that because of the traditional role of men as the pursuer, all mistakes in a relationship should be fixed by him; however, men have their limits and can easily become fed up.
If you are among those women suffering from a breakup but cant move on because you still love your ex and dont know in the first place why your relationship crashed and burned, below are possible reasons why he left you and how can you remedy each one:
1. Get Your Boyfriend Back After Cheating
This is the gravest of mistakes you can commit. Even without actually cheating, just the mistake of making him insecure enough to think that you had an affair can be a reason for your breakup. Remember that men are egotistical by nature; aside from the emotional hurt you gave him was the blow to his pride.
The first thing to do is to give him time and space for his hurt to subside. Then go out of your way to show him how miserable you are because he let you go. His love for you did not diminish because of what you did, so it is just a matter of time before he misses you. To aid him, try to stage "coincidental" meetings; but never overdo these.
2. How to Get Him Back Even When You Were Too Busy
This is an easy situation. Again, before commencing your attempt at getting back with your boyfriend, allow the hurt to abate first. All you have to do is promise to give him your undivided attention this time. Let him feel that he is your world and not even your career is as important as him.
3. Get Back Together After You Lost Your Touch
It does not mean that you have been with a guy for a long time that you should slack off. Your first trip should be to the spa or saloon to get your appeal back so as to attract him. Then, make ways to show him that you have regained your lost glory.
Remember that no situation is too impossible for you to fix. You just have to know the right way and tools to get your ex back even when he left you.
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