4 Huge Signs Your Ex Wants You Back

When youre trying to fix a broken relationship, you can often feel like your efforts are one-sided.  As you struggle to do the right things to get back your ex boyfriend or girlfriend, the payout doesnt come until the end... when your ex is back in your arms.  Still, there are indicators that you can look for when your ex is starting to get interested in you again.  If he or she still loves you and has lingering emotional attachments to the relationship you once had, there will be definite signs your ex wants you back.

The signals your ex gives off showing that they still love you can range from subtle to very overt.  During the course of your break up, youll be doing things that will make your ex want you again - and this will eventually have results.  Below is a list of top behaviors that will always indicate that your ex is once again thinking of dating you.

Your Ex Stays In Touch With You Beyond The Break Up

When a girlfriend or boyfriend dumps you for good, theyll walk away for good.  Its a simple but solid rule.  Many people buy into the illusion that your ex will still "want to be friends" with you after the break up, calling and texting and emailing you just to say whats up.  But if someone is truly finished dating you?  This is never the case.   Which is why whenever your ex keeps contact after he or she breaks up with you, its a sure sign theyre not finished with the relationship just yet.

Your Ex Is Jealous of Other People Around You

As your post-break up life goes on, you might go out with friends, family, and even other people you meet.  If youve got a jealous exgirlfriend or exboyfriend, its a huge sign your ex wants you back.  No ex whos finished with you romantically will care whether or not you start seeing someone else, which is why jealousy is tipping their hand.  Look for it, and if you want your ex back?  You can even use it as a tool.

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Making Your Ex Girlfriend Jealous

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Making Your Boyfriend Jealous To Get Him Back.

Your Ex Shows Up To See You Without Calling

The unexpected pop-in from your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend is a sure sign theyre missing you a lot.  Either they felt the need to come and see you face-to-face (which is good, because they miss you more than just a simple phone call) or theyre stopping by to "check up" on what youre doing (see jealousy, above).  Either way, its a red flag that theyre not completely finished with the idea of having you as a potential mate.  Whatever youve been doing to make your ex want you back... its working.

Your Ex Calls You While Drunk

This ones tricky, but kind of telling.  When your ex girlfriend or boyfriend has been drinking, their inhibitions are down.  This is often when their true feelings manifest themselves, and theyll do things like call you up.  Emotions and feelings that are suppressed while sober can more easily emerge.  Dont take everything your drunk ex says on the phone too seriously - after all, theyre drunk - but if theyre thinking about you while inebriated, its a safe bet theyre also thinking about you while sober.

Looking for signs that your ex wants you back is all well and good, but in order to really make them want you youll first need a plan.  Only by adapting a step-by-step, methodical approach to winning back your ex can you be sure to maximize the chances of getting back together again.

To read up on the best tips and tricks for making your ex want you once again, check out: Opening Moves For Getting Your Ex Back.